Hi Mary,
Here is a quick account.
eTTL is Canon's DSLR TTL protocol. There are actually several flavours. I have always assumed that the e stands for EOS, but I'm probably wrong.
iTTL is Nikon's DSLR TTL protocol. Again there are subtle differences between this protocol on the different camera models. Like the Canon system the companies own flashes can cope with these differences. This is not always the case with third part strobes - which sometimes have to be camera specific. I presume the i designation is to make it sound digital and sexy - like the i in iPod?
dTTL was Nikon's early DSLR TTL protocol. The D100 was the last camera to use this. d stands for digital.
sTTL is the system developed by Inon for a optical slaved TTL with system with digital compact cameras. The Inon system is the only one that is not electronically hardwired.
One of the main differences between this and old fashioned TTL (Nikonos style) is that the digital systems use preflashes (although it should be noted that preflashes were also used in the later film TTL protocols).
Alex
p.s. All that is written from memory - so please don't treat it as gospel. I haven't checked my facts for a while!