Second, the 35 mm macro is a great lens for mid size (6 inches or greater) fish and so on. At 1:1 (twice life size in 35 mm terms) the lens focuses to close to or inside the port glass. Remember that the minimum focus distance is from the sensor plain not the front of the port. I have used the 35 mm macro many times and if you plan to use it with the 14 to 42 or 14 to 45 ports at 1:1 your focus point will be inside the port glass. If you do get to 1:1 outside the housing you will be so close that getting the strobe light between the port glass and the subject will be a problem.
I'm not quite sure I understand this. The minimal focus distance of the 35mm is around 5.8 inches...is that measured from the sensor or the end of the glass?
Thanks JLyle, Belize and Phil. I really appreciate all the help. I think if I do all this before May my wife will skip divorce court and just shoot me
I think what I will do is go ahead and purchase the 50mm lens. I'll probably rig up some DIY way to hang a woody's dioptre in front of my existing port. Later, add the other items. I have a lot to improve in my game, so to speak, so new clubs only can do so much 
I guess off-topic a little... I'm an enthusiast like most and it usually takes me a few years to completely build a rig I'm happy with. At least that is how long it took me to build my P&S stuff. I'm sure the DSLR kit is going to take a little longer due to the amount of scratch you have to put together to buy a piece of gear. I just started down this path last fall after the E-410 came out and was very impressed by the price point and Phil's write up here. I've been very happy with the change from my old P&S. I would like for you to put yourself into the role of a new guy and tell me what would be your progression when it came to purchases. You've got the trip of a lifetime come up in May. You've got about $1000 to spend. Any future recommendations are appreciated
You currently have the items listed in my signature below.
I'll start by telling you my thoughts.
1. get rid of the housed FL20 and purchase the 2nd Inon Z240. I've been trying to do this since I purchased the FL20
but there always seems to be something else more important to buy. I actually purchased the Athena optical mount for the housing in anticipation of the day I do this 
2. Macro lens used behind current port for awhile (add wet diopter)
3. Macro Port -
4. WA Lens -
5. WA Port -
I apologize for the lengthy request 