First, I profile/calibrate the monitor with the Spyder. This will get your monitor controls set properly. Make sure the profile is in the correct directory.
Second, in PS, Edit/Color Settings. If you are shooting AdobeRGB, set RGB working space to AdobeRGB. Conversion options Adobe (ACE), intent Relative Colorimetric, check black point compensation.
By default, Photoshop 7 brings up the Print with Preview
dialog instead of the regular Print dialog. Ensure you are
requesting the Print with Preview dialog. At the bottom is a
Show More Options checkbox that when checked will reveal a
pop-up menu. Select Color Management in the pop-up menu.
Adobe uses the term “Source Space” to refer to the profile
assigned to the document you have chosen to print, e.g. AdobeRGB. The profile
listed here is the document's assigned profile.
Adobe uses the term “Print Space” to refer to the destination
profile. Under Print Space, select the Paper Profile you will be using. I set my intent to Relative Colorimetric with Black Point Compensation.
3) In the Print Space section of the Color Management dialog,
select the profile for your printer and media. Make sure you are using the correct profile for the paper and the correct black ink for the paper. Photoshop will
do the color conversion at print time. When setting your
printer drivers’ color management features, ensure that they
don’t also use ICC-based color management. Go to the Printer Properties Advanced menu. You want to check ICM in the Color Management box. Very important, check No Color Management under the ICC profile. This prevents "double" management, by PS and by the printer.
4) Now, in PS, go to View/Proof Setup/Custom. For profile, select the paper profile you are using. DO NOT SELECT Preserve Color Numbers. Again, I choose Intent Relative Colorimetric. A desription of the effect of this option will take some time, so I will skip it. I check black point compensation and somtimes Paper White depending on the paper I am using. Save it.
5) View/Proof Colors. This changes your screen display to try to match the color output that will occur on your print. This simulates the results of the profile trying to adjust any out of gamut colors and should come the closest to a screen/print match.
Hope this helps.
P.S. If you are using non-Epson paper. Search the paper manufacturer's web site for 2200 profiles. Many of them are now supplying free generic profiles for their papers.