Note that there are two lenses with a 45mm focal length in the micro 4/3s line up. There's the Panasonic/Leica f/2.8 one which is a true macro lens that focuses down to a 1:1 representation. There's also the Olympus f/1.8 one. It's a great lens but does not focus close enough to be useful underwater (only down to 50cm for a 0.1x magnification).
I've had good luck with the 60mm in the temperate waters of Puget Sound, although I prefer the photos I get from a 100mm lens over a 60mm lens on my Canon crop sensor DSLR too. 60mm on a 2x crop factor of m43 gives an angle of view somewhere between a 60mm and 100mm on 1.6x crop, but the minimum focusing distance of the 60mm lenses on both cameras is the same. So you can get just as close with the 60mm on m43 as a 60mm on a Nikon or Canon crop sensor DSLR. The tradeoff is that whatever you're shooting will fill the frame more, which can work for or against you depending on what you're trying to compose.
I haven't used the 45mm Panasonic macro to comment on its use in temperate waters. I ended up going with the 60mm Olympus because of price ($900 vs $450 or even less with the deals Olympus often runs) and focusing speed. If you decide to go wide angle, something like the 8mm Panasonic fisheye with a small dome should work well for CFWA type shots.
For a first lens, I would definitely vote for macro. Locally, I can get good macro shots on pretty much any dive no matter how poor the visibility is. For good wide angle, there are just fewer subjects and getting an interesting background usually requires better visibility. I also wouldn't consider the kit lens to be a no brainer. I actually owned the 12-50 lens before I bought my E-M1 for a new underwater setup (got it with the E-M5 kit I was using above water), but bypassed the port and gear for it. Instead I just went straight to separate macro and wide angle lenses and ports.
The 12-50 will actually fit in the Nauticam port for the 60mm, although you need an aftermarket gear if you want to zoom. I've taken it underwater a couple times set a fixed focal length just to mess around and wasn't very impressed with the photos. Its value is really in the ability to shoot ok macro and okish wide angle on a single dive. At least in the Nauticam system, the port and gear for the 12-50 is fairly expensive. You might be able to spend the same and get both dedicated macro and wide angle by skipping the kit lens or using the 12-50 in the 60mm macro port with the aftermarket focus gear and a wet diopter for macro.