Hi!
If the camera automatically switches to 1/125 while a strobe is connected this most probably has the following reason:
The shutter is limited to a max. sync speed of 1/125. If you set a higher speed the second curtain will start moving before the first reached the other side. Belwo tha max. sync speed, the whole image area is visible for some time during the exposure. The strobe has a chance to illuminate the whole area in one go. shutter speeds exceeding tha max. sync speed cause one part of the image area still or already covered by one of the shutter curtains. What you get is a dark band extending from one edge of the image. Which edge it is and teh size of the area depends on the direction of the shutter (horizontal, vertical) and at which position the strobe is fired (first or second curtain and ignition delay).
Horizontal shutters tend to sync below 1/125, vertical may do up to 1/250 because of the shorter distance from edge to edge.
Given this, it'll make only sense to go for shutter speed below the max. sync speed, in your sample 1/125.
You may experiment with taping and find out the functionality of the pins yourself.
Known connectors:
The frame is general signal ground.
The (larger) center pin fires the strobe.
Known functionality:
There's a Quench signal to stop the strobe in TTL
There's a Ready pin that tells the camera that the strobe is charged
There may be others to tell the camera details about the strobe.
You may find out the Quench as follows:
First, use either some old film or something of similar colour or rflection so the TTL sensors will get some reflection (you may waste real film material but it's not necessary). Put it across the shutter in place of the film. The naked black back plate may not reflect enough light for this test.
Tape one of the pins in question. Fire a shot with the strobe pointing far away from the camera. This should result in a full power flash. Do one pointing towards the lens (at about f:5.6). If this results in a full power flash you most probably taped the Quench. If the flash is very short and weak you didn't tape the Quench signal and TTL works well.
If you can't get a "Ready" reading in the viewfinder although the strobe is fully charged and ready to fire, you taped the Ready pin. This pin may cause to switch the camera to "strobe mode".
If your camera allows some custom setting like slow sync etc. (which is availabel with some cameras) you may forget all the above and use this setting to allow any shutter speed below max. sync.
Helge ;-)=)