I would think a little about what you've been doing. the two sealing o-rings are very fractionally greater diameter than the opening for the viewfinder to allow them to compress and seal, the retaining o-ring is greater diameter than the opening so it won't go through the opening. It will be sitting right on the edge of that opening so the viewfinder can't slide in and out.
You have been pulling on the viewfinder presumably straight out enough to move it the 6-8mm outwards to so it breaks the O-ring seal - or you could have been placing sidewards force on the viewfinder to break the seal that way. That means you have forced the retaining o-ring to deform enough to jam it inside the viewfinder mounting port- potentially damaging it.
I would suggest inspecting the o-rings for damage as particularly the retaining o-ring as it appears you have forced it to go where it's not designed to go.
I would suggest double checking the retaining O-ring is significantly larger in diameter (i.e. it's noticable to the eye) than the sealing o-rings. Also confirming you have the right viewfinder for your housing , there are two models 33203 for DSLR and 33205 for mirrorless. The manual has details of which viewfinder is compatible with which housing - the viewfinders actually lock in place so that the mounting tube does not rotate - the rotation is within the viewfinder assembly. I'm assuming you probably can't fit the wrong one due to the differences in the mounting system the DSLR version has pins and the mirrorless has a cut out, but always pays to ask.