I'm not sure what you mean by a smaller UW setup. The 20D housing will be exactly the same size as a xti housing (they acutally are the same housing, the only difference is where the buttons are). If you want to use an xti that's fine, but it will not be any smaller nor less expensive.
As far as ports go. No, there is not a default port. The port you need depends on which lens's you want to use. See ikelite's www.ikelite.com to find the port that is compatible with the lenses you will be using.
For flash's, on an Ikelite housing, you should use Ikelite strobes, other brands will work but only manual (no TTL). If you want smaller strobes, Ikelite's DS-51 strobe is nice and small. But it is not all that wide. So if you are going to be using a wide angle lens it may not give sufficient coverage. A DS-125 is much bigger but has a much wider coverage and more powerfull. Even better are two strobes.