The reviews on the 150mm lens indicate a slow auto-focus.
Can you provide references to these reviews?
Individuals saying AF is slow don't mean a whole lot. You have no idea how they are testing, if they are, or what they consider slow.
The shallower the DOF, the slower AF will be and the 150 at f/2.8 is shallower than the 105 at f/2.8 so it is at a disadvantage. In my experience the 150 AF is fine but I use AF to get in range and MF afterward. Alex is certainly a photo pro, he places great emphasis on AF performance, and he didn't mention AF as a problem with the 150 on the D3. He thought the lens quite useful.
If fast macro AF is the first priority a large sensor is probably not the first choice. I'd wonder why any serious photographer would make such a choice. Of course, your original point has nothing to do with AF speed and that point has already been debunked.
Simply stated, I can take the same shot from further away from the subject. Now technically, more water between the camera and the subject degrades the photo but, practically, being farther away allows me to get a better pose from the subject simply because I am less likely to spook the subject.
FF shooters don't have any problem achieving these working distances and they can focus fine while doing so. Not a good reason to drive format choice.