Ty so much for the suggestions. All good options and I decided to go with the Backscatter simple package:
Olympus TG-6 with PT-059 housing
Backscatter MW-4300 Video light and mount
Nauticum flexitray plate II with left handle
I figured it will do the trick to learn again and I had the cash to burn. If my daughter catches on or I just end up going more again (likely), then I'll invest in a nicer rig as I grow out of my compact and she can eventually use this.
What I forgot:
I'm not a little myopic since I last dove . . . how am I going to see that back screen? (AOI-UMG-01 magnifying viewer, will that work for my aging eyes?)
no lens cover, whoops
no memory card, lol (128G Delkin fine? I will have a laptop to download after dives)
no back up battery (21700 Li-Ion rechargeable batteries came with it; assume they are fine for back up)
no wide angle lens (How is the Backscatter M52 81 degrees air lens for a beginner? Or should I upgrade to a better lens?)
no software to edit photos or video (what would you suggest for beginners that I could add music to short clip video maybe?)
and no fish identifying software. I have 3 books from ages ago, but obviously not a good option this decade. Is there something people suggest to reference on the web?
Very excited to try this out in Bora Bora in 2 weeks!