OK, let’s analyze backscatter from a scientific point of view. First of all, scattering has absolutely nothing to do with reflection. While reflection is directional (that’s how a mirror works), scattering is (almost) not. A particle, that is illuminated by a light source becomes a light source by itself and is irradiating more or less uniformly in all directions. Therefore, it is irrelevant from which angle a scattering particle is illuminated, all that matters is the intensity of the irradiating light at the place where the scattering particle is located.
You can easily prove this by yourself. Use a narrow beam dive light to irradiate a glass of water. There is no scattering, as long as there are no particles that scatter the light in the water (not completely true, I only consider Tyndall scattering). Now add a couple of drops of milk to the water, and you will see the light beam (Tyndall effect). You can move around the dive light and the intensity of the scattering will stay the same, irrespective of the angle of irradiation.
How can we reduce scattering? (i) Don’t irradiate the scattering particle and (ii) pull back your strobe. (i) is trivial, but why does (ii) work? Let’s assume you have an ideal strobe, then the inverse-square law holds for the light intensity as a function of distance. If you double the distance between strobe and object to be illuminated, the light intensity decreases to ¼. This is true for both scattering particles and the object you want to photograph.
Now let’s do a “Gedankenexperiment”. You have your strobe, a scattering particle, and your object in line. The distance between strobe and scattering particle is 10 cm and the distance between strobe and object is 100 cm. In this case, the light intensity (number of photons per unit area) at the scattering particle is 100 times larger than at the object (because of the inverse square law and 10 times larger distance). If you now pull back the strobe by 80 cm, the distance between the strobe and scattering particle is 90 cm, the distance between scattering particle and object still 90 cm, and the distance between strobe and object 180 cm. Now the light intensity at the scattering particle is only 4 times that at the object and not 100 times! This is also true if you increase the power of the strobe to compensate for the larger distance to the object. Compared to the object, the scattering particle looks now much less bright.
The final “Gedankenexperiment” is to pull back the strobe to an infinite distance. We do have such a strobe, it is called the sun. In this case the light intensity is the same at the scattering particle and at the object. We still see the scattering, but it is much less intense than by using a strobe considering the inverse square law.
Of course, this is very much simplified. I am only talking about Tyndall scattering of particles larger than the wavelength of light, not about Rayleigh scattering at molecules.