Well, here it comes.......
What is your oppinion on solo diving ( for experienced divers ?). PADI tells you it is safer...... well, not so sure.......
Case 1
Went down on the Hardeep for a fun dive inbetween a training dive, and in our group an instructor tooka tourist down for his first wreck dive. Well, it was not well timed, and we all know just how bad 'extreme' currents can get on the Hardeep. On the bottom, instrutor signals he has an issue, and asks me to stay with the tourist to at least give him his moneys worth on the wreck. I look at the tourist, and his eyes are as large as golf balls from panic. Never the less ( yes , bad decision, we all make them ) I decided to accept, mainly because this was his last dive before returning. Now here is my point. a) I spent all my dive trying to get him hold on to the line as he was being constantly blown away by the current. B) The guy was breathing like a steam train and basically on the edge of loosing it c) if I did get in trouble, would he have the capacity to help me ?
Another case, a guy who was in my group ( again, just met on the boat ) paniced, spat the dummy ( regulator ) started gulping water . Ended up having to resolve the issue as the incompetent dive master could only meakly say ' calm down '.
Point is, for me there has been very little benefits / upside, and on the contrary, I am placing myself at risk by being around these people as sooner or later they will complicate my dive, and potentially bring me down in thier panic.
I know it is a selfish view, but survival is not something to be treated lightly, and minimising risks is the best road to staying alive in this sport.
Another point is I enjoy photography. Having dived with friends, we always seem to loose each other in 5 mins due to visability problems / being focused on a certain subject. ( try to think of your buddy when you ahve a whale shark / manta in front of you )
Would be interested to see what your views are on how having a buddy will help. ( ok, point taken, with a good buddy, and maybe being stung by a stone fish, there might be some up sides )
FYI, I dive with fully redundant second tank ( 20 cft) with seperate regulator, so blowing an O-ring is not an issue