Here in the UK drysuit diving is the norm and hence there is a big market for sales. I think the neoprene/membrane split is about 50/50 so there is no clear choice. I would advise to have a dive with both (any decent dive shop should offer this service) and decide for yourself.
I personally have dived with an 8mm uncompressed neoprence all of my dive life. I think its one of those things that once you use you never change, so its important to get it right before you invest mega bucks. To me the advantages of neoprene are the warmth and buoyancy of the material. I never have to wear anything more than a pair of jogging pants & sweatshirt. Obviously with a membrane or compressed neoprene you'll need the extra investment of an undersuit. In addition, I believe there is the safety factor. I once experienced, whilst teaching, both types of suits flooding at depth (on different dives). I know this should'nt & does'nt happen frequently but it COULD. The diver in the neoprene surfaced safely with no problems. Obviously the natural buoyancy of the material helped. The diver in the membrane had real difficulty getting to the surface, even with a full BCD. A story I always repeat to those persons deciding on neoprene/membrane.
Another factor would be the type of diving you would be doing. I used to carry out plenty of wreck dives with penetration & I know a membrane could not stand the rigours of this.
Having said that I know lots of divers who use membranes & would swear not to dive in anything else. The comfort and ease in donning is a lot let stressful in a membrane.
In my 20 years of diving experience, which includes teaching 2 types of diver education both at an amateur & professional level, together with owning a dive school & dive shop I can say that neoprene slightly tipped the balance in diver (punter) preference. However, students & punters can & do tend to look at piers as role models. Since all the instructors & DM's used neoprene many followed suit (no pun intended).
Conclusion - TRY BEFORE YOU BUY
Hope this helps
Mark