There is no problem lighting a fisheye wide angle shot with a single strobe, if you know what you are doing.
Ahhh, there in lies the rub. I'm far from an expert so I bow to your opinions, But it seems to me that there are far too many variables at work here to be able to define one way as "correct". Let's see, we have ambient light level, strobe power, strobe type, strobe angle of coverage, diffused or not, water clarity, strobe position, strobe angle, subject size, subject distance, particulate size, particulate amount, particulate reflectance and probably a few others I'm forgetting. The calculus involved in solving for these is far past my ability to provide an answer much less be adamant about it.
The real variable that drives discussion here especially on this subject is that we are all in different places on that big learning curve. What passes for a good picture for some, others would throw away. We are all on the journey and the beauty of Wetpixel is that the craft continues to grow and improve because we feel a responsibility to help those with less experience while at the same time learning from others with more. I'd say RJ and Tim are both right for what they are trying to do, really shouldn't be an argument. Take a look at the Strobist website sometime, 30,000 members discussing how to use and where to put their strobes. They are on dry land and they can't agree.
As I grow in my photography I'm paying much more attention to how I use the light. I'm starting to really understand that the light is the key variable that separates world class from just another good shot. With the advent of digital photography there are thousands of good pictures being put up each week on Flickr alone that would have been cover shots when I started diving. Now it's just another picture of an anemone fish. I'd offer that the pros like Alex and the others here who consistently produce breathtaking images that separate them from the rest of us use the light they need to make the image they want. I'll bet if you picked any six of their great images the strobes are in a different place for each one.
Where do you put your strobe(s) to take a good picture? I use a 5" and an 8" arm with the strobes pointed straight ahead so I can "scissor" the strobes in & out to the position that the light just makes it to the subject without lighting the water between us. Where do you put the strobes to take a great picture? Turn one strobe down (or off) so you get some shadows and highlights and put them where they need to be to tell the story. Where do you put them for a great image? Beats the hell outta me, but when I figure it out you guys will be the first to know.
Have fun,
Steve